Do you really mean what you wanna say?

Hello there again readers!

We have a question for you.

Have you ever want to say something to someone, but you don’t have the guts to say so? So you just say anything that pops into your head at the moment?

Yes, we feel you. It’s horrible, plus, messy. It makes you say to yourself, “WHY THE H**L DID I SAY THAT??!”. Been there, done that. List checked!

So, there’s a saying which says that “people don’t often say what they mean, and mean what they say”. Do you agree with this?

In our opinion, what matters the most is what you mean in your HEART. Even if you cannot utter the correct words or sentences, it is what you mean that matters most from your own true heart.

However, there are times when you need to say things just to establish and maintain the relationship between people around you, your circle of friends, your colleagues. But actually, you don’t even mean some compliments that you give to them (don’t lie, you have done this at least once in your life). You just say things to make they feel happy, for instance:

Friend 1: *showed a new shawl that she just bought*

                “hey what do you think of my new shawl?”

Friend 2: …..nice…. (?)

Friend 1: Thanks…. But, do you really mean it?

Friend 2: umm…. Yeah……… (?)

You see? Friend 2 just say it in order to please her friend. People tend to listen to what they want to hear, not what they need to hear. Others might think that you are being so blunt and very straightforward in saying the truth, but it’s better than insincerely being pleased by others, right? You don’t need those honey-marshmallow-caramel-coated words to live your life!

Lastly, if you wanna say what you really mean, remember to always use the right words and do not be rude. Use the correct way in delivering your messages! All the best!